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McConnaughey Photography
My Story About NILMDTS I was introduced to this organization through other photographers who were part of it. I have never in my life been so moved to do something so charitable. It was a struggle at first deciding if I was really the kind of person that was strong enough to deal with infant deaths and stay professional during a session. After talking to my mom, who has - of course - been one of my biggest supporters, I decided that it wouldn't hurt to at least try one session. She talked me into it by saying that G*d has put me on Earth with a gift and that I should be generous with it. Those of you that know me, know that I'm not particularly religious, but I completely agree that I needed to put my talents to use for more than monetary reasons. ~~~~~~~~~~~Get tissues ready!!!!!!!!!!!~~~~~~~~~~~ I did my first session August 9, 2008 at Nationwide Children's Hospital. It was the hardest one possible to start out on because when I got there the tiny 4 lb. preemie was still alive on the ventilator. The family had waited for me to arrive before removing him. I was asked to photograph him in his bed with Mom and Dad at his side, as the doctor removed everything (the parents chose to leave the room for this), and as the parents spent the last few moments of life holding their son in a private room. I was professional during the entire session - pushed back all but a few tears. In fact, because the family was so distraught and appreciated what I was doing for them, I found that I was being their rock. In between shots, I was the calm, caring support by commenting on how beautiful he was, listening to their stories, passing out tissues, and even giving Grandma a hug when she started breaking down. I became part of their family for that day because I had shared something so intimate with them. I was able to stay focused on the photography and captured beautiful moments in such a sad time. I was surprised how strong I was because I'm usually the one balling my eyes out at anything sad, even when it has nothing to do with me. Of course when I got to the comfort of my own home, I cried a lot (still get teary-eyed about it) but ate a couple big chocolate chip cookies and washed it down with a "relaxing" beverage before I could go to bed! I've done more since then and am proud to be able to provide this service to families so that they may have beautiful memories of their little angels. ********************* If you ever know anyone who might be in need of this organization's service, please visit their website or call me directly. It is completely free of charge and includes a photo session, DVD slideshow, and full resolution images on CD for them to print. More NILMDTS information... View images from NILMDTS sessions... |
